How Do You Value Yourself?

Exam is just around the corner but I have a blur brain to prepare everything. 1 lecturer is about to leave and another one is planning to leave. The turn-over rate is so high. Luckily I am about to finish the course or else I will be in deep trouble.

Just another topic before the week ends. "How do you value yourself?" When we talk about value, it can meant by 2 things. One is about the Price and the other will be Confidence. Let's talk about the first value first. Does everyone has a price tag on them? It's absolutely not. Some people are tagged with low dignity when they are born e.g. poor people. It's a social discrimination. But some may tag themselves with low dignity naturally. I guess you know what do I mean by that. The main idea is that we don't see how much are they, so we can't tag them with a price. But human will naturally tag the poor as worthless. Sometimes I may wonder, is it fair to them?

Another value is about confidence and agony. No matter how they look, how they dress or how they face the society, they will still carry high confidence level in them. I am not critisising any celebraty but Lady Gaga can be an example. She doesn't look pretty, absolutely looks weird to me! But with her condifidence and courage, why does she needs to bother what I critisise her! When you have the confidence, you are rating yourself higher compared to others. That's where everyone will be taking you as a role model or admire you, naturally they fall in love with you! Actually the main message in this part is that, confidence is the natural beauty of woman and confidence is also the "macho"ness of a man! Haha.

ENjoy and have a nice weekend.

Let's Have A Change!

It was a really sad tragic which happened 2 days ago. It was because of a negligence of a bus driver, 19 people died and many more injured. Imagine a young boy at an age of 19 has to spend the rest of his life on the bed, one even got his hand amputated, some may have lost their love ones. So, what is it got to do with the below video!

Sometimes I am not prejudice towards bus and lorry drivers, but they are just taking things for granted. Experience is not everything, accidents can easily happen with just one wrong step. Same goes to how do you determine your future! Will it be a straight or windy path? We totally wouldn't know about that because everything is under His control. But one thing I know the most is that, we must learn how to change! Just as simple as "Who moved my cheese?" For sure that there will be a risk when there is a change but we must always be optimistic.

I always like to advise my friends. "We still need to live for tomorrow no matter we are sad or we are happy' why not we live a happy life everyday!" And moreover, the change may be a good one which is beyond your expectation. Remember, "Only winners will make things happen but not losers!" For my fellow classmates, time is a bit constrained but there is definitely a way to solve every problem. It's just the matter of time.

Enjoy and have a nice day! Enjoy the video.....

Hey, You Are Cheating On Me! (2)

Just too busy with homework, exams and so on. Insufficient sleep has already been a norm for myself and my classmates, hopefully everything can end within 1 year time. Anyway, I am so glad that weekend is just around the corner. So just continue with what I have mentioned in the previous post!

7 Increasingly away from home - Has there been a sudden increase in long hours at work? Does he/she seem to be spending an unusual amount of time with their friends recently?

8 Indifference in the home - If your spouse/ partner has seemingly lost interest in activities like spending time with the children or the family and maintaining the home, they may be bored with family life and seeking simple pleasures elsewhere.

9 Changes in grooming and appearance - While there are many reasons to want to look and feel better, often times a new lover can be the impetus behind a new hairstyle or sharper attire.

10 Physical signs upon returning home - Does your partner avoid eye contact or rush upstairs to take a shower upon returning home? Lipstick on collar, unknown perfume or cologne and dishevelled clothing in general could mean your spouse/ partner is engaging in "extra-curricular" activities.

11 Missing wedding ring - Sometimes we overlook the obvious. Has your spouse/ partner stopped wearing the wedding ring or something which you gave which is very significant to him/ her recently? Have you given your partner any other jewellery that they are suddenly no longer wearing?

12 Clues in the car - Some of the many clues you can look for in the car are receipts, cigarette butts, foreign smells, moved passenger seat, changes in clothing in the trunk, unexplained mileage, removed car seat and other personal effects that may indicate a person is in a relationship.

If you find many items on this list of 12 seem all too familiar, don't tip your hand just yet. Confronting a spouse/ partner with no proof can be backfiring, so be prepared to gather evidence and force the facts. Just something additional, do you think you would be happy to be another person for the sake of someone? Living a good, happy and healty life is about expressing well about yourself naturally but not about living in stress to cope up with others.

Enjoy and have a nice day..