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Friday, 24 September 2010

Hey, You Are Cheating On Me! (1)

Hey, guys! I got this article last week from the newspaper. It is an interesting one. Though it applies to spouses but I am sure that it is practically suitable for partners who are not married yet as well. It's all about life!

So, first 6 things (part 1) to watch out if your spouse/ partner is cheating on you:-

1- Lack of Intimacy
Sex and intimacy is an important part of a relationship. A noticeable change or loss of interest in this area definitely points to a problem in your relationship.

2- Not allowed to contact them at work
If your partner has requested that you no longer visit or call him/ her at work, there may be reason other than the boss is strict.

3- Friends and co-workers behave oddly
Your partner's friends and co-workers may know about a secret relationship, and thus act strangely in your presence because they are uncomfortable looking you in the eye and lying to you.

4- Excessive computer use
A good deal of cheating taken place right at home over the internet. Signs to look for locked screen, your spouse/ partner quickly switching screens when you enter a room, or spending excessive time on the computer.

5- Private mobile phone use
Just like the computer, a mobile phone can be one of the tools your spouse/ partner uses to engage in undisclosed activities. Watch out for secret phone calls and excessive texting.

6- Negative attitude
Typically a cheater will be overly loving and sweet to you in the beginning but that quickly turns to finding fault with you as your spouse/ partner tries to mentally justify his or her action.

I have actually thought of being a psychologist whom expertise in the field of LOVE, but there is no such course in this world. Anyway, girls! I am not sure about how true this is! If you happened to chase a guy and you became the first love of that guy, then the relationship didn't seem to work out for you after some time and you suggested to break off. So, do you think that guy can afford to lose you with just a word of "Sorry"? Remember, guys can also be very fragile!

Enjoy and have a nice day.

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